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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS about Coaching!
The following comes from the International
Coaching Federation
- What Is Coaching?
Professional Coaching is a professional partnership between a qualified coach and an individual (or team) that supports the achievement of extraordinary results, based on goals set by the individual or team. Through the process of coaching, individuals focus on the skills and actions needed to successfully produce their personally relevant results.
The individual or team chooses the focus of conversation, while the coach listens and contributes observations and questions as well as concepts and principles which can assist in generating possibilities and identifying actions.
Coaching accelerates the individual's or team’s progress by providing greater focus and awareness of possibilities leading to more effective choices. Coaching concentrates on where individuals are now and what they are willing to do to get where they want to be in the future. ICF member coaches recognize that results are a matter of the individual's or team’s intentions, choices and actions, supported by the coach's efforts and application of coaching skills, approaches and methods.
- What are the benefits of coaching?
People who engage in a coaching relationship can expect to experience fresh perspectives on personal challenges and opportunities, enhanced thinking and decision making skills, enhanced interpersonal effectiveness, and increased confidence in carrying out their chosen work and life roles.
- What are some typical reasons someone might work with a coach?
There is something at stake (a challenge, stretch goal or opportunity), and it is urgent, compelling or exciting or all of the above
- There is a gap in knowledge, skills, confidence, or resources
- A big stretch is being asked or required, and it is time sensitive
- There is a desire to accelerate results
- There is a need for a course correction in work or life due to a setback
- An individual has a style of relating that is ineffective or is not supporting the achievement of one’s personally relevant goals
- There is a lack of clarity, and there are choices to be made
- The individual is extremely successful, and success has started to become problematic
- Work and life are out of balance, and this is creating unwanted consequences
- One has not identified his or her core strengths and how best to leverage them
- The individual desires work and life to be simpler, less complicated
- There is a need and a desire to better organized and more self-managing
- What has caused the tremendous growth in the coaching industry?
Generally the world has changed a lot, and coaching is a useful tool to deal with many of those changes. For example, coaching is a great tool for today's challenging job market. There is more job transition, more self-employment and small business. Some of the real life factors include:
- Rapid changes in the external business environment
- Downsizing, restructuring, mergers and other organizational changes have radically altered what has been termed the “traditional employment contract”—companies can no longer achieve results using traditional management approaches
- There is a growing shortage of talented employees in certain industries—to attract and retain top talent, companies must commit to investing in individuals’ development
- There is a widening disparity between what managers were trained to do and what their jobs now require them to do in order to meet increasing demands for competitive results
- There is unrest on the part of many employees and leaders in many companies—people are wrestling with fears around job insecurity and increased workplace pressures to perform at higher levels than ever before.
- Companies must develop inclusive, collaborative work environments, in order to achieve strategic business goals, and to maintain high levels of customer satisfaction.
In addition, individuals who have experienced the excellent results of coaching are talking to more people about coaching. In short, coaching helps people focus on what matters most to them in life: business and personal. People today are more open to the idea of being in charge of their own lives. Coaching helps people do just that; so the industry continues to grow.
What is the difference between Coaching and Therapy??
The Coaches Training Institute (my alma mater) provides what I believe is the best picture of what the differences are between coaching and therapy (CTI Core Curriculum course work on Fulfillment):
| COACHING |
THERAPY |
| Views both parties as naturally, creative, resourceful and whole. |
More apt to view clients from a medical model. Diagnoses and treats. |
| Trained to work with functioning clients |
Trained to work with major mental illness |
| Works with clients who are able to form an alliance and have common goals |
Works with client with entrenched problems |
| Co-active model (client and coach are equals) |
Therapist is the ‘expert’ |
| Coach and client are on a peer basis |
Hierarchical difference between therapist and clients |
| Alliance/relationship designed by the coach and the client together |
Treatment plan largely designed by the therapist |
| Focus on evolving and manifesting potential |
Focus on healing and understanding |
| Emphasis on present and future |
Emphasis on past and present |
| Action and ‘being’ oriented |
Problem oriented |
| Explore actions and behaviors that manifest high self-esteem |
Explore genesis of behaviors that create low self-esteem |
| Regard and coach negative self-beliefs as saboteurs (“gremlins”, temporary obstacles) |
Analyze and treat origins and historical roots of negative self-beliefs |
| Coach and client ask: “What’s next? / What now?” |
Therapist and client ask: “Why and from where?” |
| Works mainly with external issues |
Works mainly with internal issues |
| Discourages transference as inappropriate |
Encourages transference as a therapy tool |
| Accountability and ‘homework’ between sessions held as important |
Accountability less commonly expected |
| Contact between sessions for accountability and ‘wins’. |
Contact between session for crisis and difficulties only |
| Uses coaching skills |
Uses therapy techniques |
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